Wednesday, March 31, 2010
LOVING WITH STIPULATIONS
Loving with stipulations is harder in my opinion because you have to constantly remind yourself of what not to do. I mean from the aspect of telling yourself what you won't do in a relationship or what you will not open yourself to receiving from that person. When you have loved unconditionally and lost the next time you say "I won't do ......" That's hard to do when you find love the next time. Its hard to check your heart and mind at the same time. Only one can win and the heart usually wins. Although most don't admit it love feels great! We can get wrapped up into in so deep we forget who we are or let some things we wouldn't normal accept ride whether its good or bad. I'm guilty of doing so, so wrapped up I lost myself in it. Came out bruised & stumbling scared to love again but still open to it if it came along. Aint love grand!!!!!! You have to always be open to love no matter how guarded you are you never know who you may pass up because of "fear". Its hard don't get me wrong but you have to be willing to make the next better than the last with the realization that failure is possible. But if we all walked around love because of fear we would be fearful of everything.